A recent
research study found that traits like sadness and defeatism define depression
but they have their positive side, too. The research conducted by the
University of Basel, Switzerland, says depressive individuals perform better
than their normal peers in decision-making tasks.
What is
depression? Depression is a symptom of deprivation. When you think that you are
seriously lacking in something that you earnestly desire, this thought is bound
to lead to depression. Depression is not a physical phenomenon; it is
psychological in nature. If you feel that you have gained what you wanted to
gain, that will give you a sense of satisfaction. But when you feel that you
have failed to achieve your goal it leads to depression. In the first case,
your life very soon comes to a full stop, but in the second case your life goes
on, punctuated by commas.
Unpleasant
experiences are painful but they make a necessary contribution to advanced
intellectual development. Without undergoing this kind of experience, no one
can be a super achiever.
A survey
undertaken earlier entailed studying the lives of one hundred super achievers
in order to discover their common features. It observed that one common trait
of all these super achievers was discontent.
Discontent
not only leads to an unending passion to achieve some prospective goal but it
also engenders an unremitting urge to achieve more and more. Thus it becomes
the master key for a high degree of success, whatever the field of action.
Where contentment puts a full stop to everything, discontent pushes you on a
non-stop journey. This is the greatest advantage of depression.
History
has always shown that those living in carefree comfort, and not therefore a
prey to despair, have generally failed to achieve any notable success; in
contrast to those who beset by adversity, have fallen into depression only to
emerge subsequently as super achievers.
If,
according to the law of nature, the journey of super achievement pursues a
painful course, you are bound to keep to that course. In this case, you have
only two options; either achieve super success by paying its natural price, or
die without ever knowing super achievement
Nature
has demonstrated this fact in several ways. For example, if you want a glass of
apple juice, you have to crush an apple. This applies to anyone who wants to be
a super achiever: He is to oblige to tread the thorny path prescribed by nature
because, without fulfilling this condition, no one can reach his desired goal.
It is a
fact of life that one who was born with a silver spoon in his mouth is fated to
live out his life as an average person, whereas those who are born without this
silver spoon contrive to achieve great success.
In the
beginning, depression seems to be a curse but in the end, depression turns out
to be a blessing. In fact, depression is only a temporary phase of life. It is
in no way permanent. Depression is like a tedious journey. During this journey,
you may be tired or bored, but when you reach your destination, you experience
total happiness and satisfaction.
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